More Thoughts on Valentines Day
So often Valentines Day is about someone else proving and acknowledging that we are lovable.
Gawd forbid that we don’t get that proof of their love on this auspicious day…
Do we go into blame and prove to ourselves that we are not loved if we don’t get the 12 roses, or the dinner out, or the loving card, or the phone call, or the “Honey I love You “?
This doesn’t have to be an anniversary for you to remind yourself to feel unloved.
How many are receiving the roses and the gifts of dedication and love and feeling hurt by the gifts? … Does it feel like a lie ???
If you are in a relationship that is false or superficial or unreciprocal, sometimes the gifts can make that space where the wound lives hurt even more … It’s like being in a crowded room and feeling completely abandoned and alone.
Gifts from others aren’t true if they are false and especially if we are false with ourselves and want someone else to prove our worthiness to us. We shall be let down at the expense of others that do love us.
If you are punishing yourself with unreceived gifts , check in with your true self and allow you to feel loved by you.
If you check in and you don’t feel loved by you ~ then let’s do some E.F.T. on how you really feel about Valentines Day. After all, if you are feeling unloved, then you might need to look at the unhealed wounding that causes you to feel this way.
For those who know the EFT protocol, tap along to the following statements:
“Even though I don’t feel loved ~ I choose to accept me anyway”
Say this 3 times while tapping the karate chop point ~
“Even though this is Valentines Day and I feel Unloved , I choose to feel this part of me that feels unloved.”
( top of head )
“Nobody loves me.”
Tap on all points ~ click here for diagram.
Nobody loves me.” ( this is the belief of the child within that you have been abandoning )
~ continue ~ nobody loves me ~
~ Please remember that this isn’t the real truth ~
it is the truth of your younger self that feels this way ..
“I Hate Valentines Day.”
( tap on all points )
“They don’t really love me.”
( tap on all points )
Now this is where you need to be a detective…
- What picture comes up ? or What Feeling ? or What Memory ?
- He doesn’t love me ~
- She doesn’t love me ~
- They don’t love me ~
- They are against me ~
If you find any jewels of thought where you are invited to go deeper, take the invitation from that deeper part of you.
This is where the Valentines Day Gifts are Waiting!
~ If you Desire to Change The Way Life Is Showing Up For YOU ~ Call Me and We Shall Change It Up.