Take that step that you have been waiting for.

I mean ALL your relationships

This time next year, our future selves will be looking back at all the gifts and learnings that were part of this year. It feels a bit like September when we used to get ready to go back to school  in a higher grade with a new teacher and possibly new classmates.

Let’s be curious about who our new teachers and classmates will be in 2012 as we grow and learn here in ‘Earth School.’

Please remember that if at any time you are feeling uncomfortable, that means that you are growing and shifting

Blessings & Love,

Dana

Building a Bridge from 2011 to 2012

Adjust your rear view mirror to this time last year ~ January 2011.

Do you remember how positive you were on taking those steps into the new year, to create the new you?

Please congratulate you self for all the great steps that you took, because you are absolutely awesome!

Let’s welcome the growth that you are ready for today in this moment ! You are creating your future right now!

So let’s be results oriented and positive

Five Key Transformational Truth Boosts

1. Challenges don’t happen TO you ~ they happen FOR you. ( It is what you do with the learnings that counts. )
2. Waking up is a process.
3. ” No” is a complete sentence.
4. You are creating your future in the now.
5. In order to change, you actually have to change … ( just sayin’ )

Let’s take change for instance. Ask your self …

• When opportunities for change come to your door, are you excited to answer it, or are you afraid to answer it?
• Do you go and busy yourself with numerous activities and distractions?
• Do you get ill and create a drama so that you can’t walk over and answer the door?
• Do you blame someone for you not being able to answer the door?
• Do you hang onto an old wound or story that you ‘re-charge’ to use as your excuse battery ?
• The old stories and unhealed wounds are actually gifts !

They are a continuous communication from the symptoms that are trying to get our attention.

Let’s unwrap these gifts that have been constantly repeating the same message.

Behind the wrapping of the old wounds , fears and beliefs are the gifts of change.

May we all be blessed with Love ~ for ourselves and each other ~

I send you all my best wishes for the month of December. I sense that many of you are already preparing and anticipating being ready for some of the growth opportunities that Dear December offers us. Please remember that you can get through this busy month with ease and grace and be aware that the shadow side of December’s lessons are a choice.

Below is a letter that I wrote to the month of December to honor and acknowledge Decembers of the past and the many choices that are in waiting…

Blessings & Love,
Dana

Magical Mystical December Gifts

Dear December,

You are here once again with all of your ornaments, carols, and interesting weather. You are a very special month and I am choosing to learn about the gifts of growth that you provide for me.

In previous years these gifts have sometimes been received through the energy of denial and resistance.  I see that denying you are here causes more discomfort and last minute drama. You clearly are a very powerful and wise month… This year I choose to be in partnership with you in all your 31 days.

Dear December, maybe this year I can laugh along with you and accept the joy that you offer me. It will be much more fun if I ask loved ones for help with cleaning/ decorating/ shopping/ wrapping presents, baking and cooking.

I will enjoy you and celebrate the energies of receiving … instead of out of balance giving. The latter is the shadow side of what you offer us.

I am aware of your gifts of truth and completion from the 12-ness of your December Energy. Twelve is such a significant number in many spiritual and scientific aspects and I am open to seeing more of you in all of your glory.

Thank you for the gifts that you have put forth for me, Dearest December. I embody the energies of Love, Kindness, and your Magical Mystical Gifts from past Decembers that were patiently waiting to be collected and received by me. These gifts have now found their true home in my heart.

My Inner Divine Child celebrates me embracing you and I delight in your annual visits.

Thank You, December, for the best December yet !!!

And to read my article from last year, “Christmas: Heaven or Hell?“, please click here.

May we all be blessed with Love
~ for ourselves and each other ~
Dana

For example, if we never had enough support as a child, we will unconsciously create opportunities to
experience not having support and not being seen or heard by our parents. This will eventually be transfered
to our immediate relationships where our parents aren’t even involved… The family of origin may be deceased or
estranged. Nevertheless, it will play itself out in our money, our relationships and our health.

We do this unconsciously of course and if we step back we will notice a repetitive pattern that cannot be denied.
If betrayal is one of our emotional themes, then we will experience a series of interactions where betrayal is the payoff.

“At least I will get to be right about my pain…” ( the story continues… )

The upside down way of being is slowly starting to be globally healed as the next generation teaches us to be
conscious of our creations.

Have you noticed how our young ones are more conscious and evolved in this area?

They innocently question our toxic reasoning when we accidentally show it to them…. This is the same innocence that
we have within us. We can re-connect to this and rebuild our foundation of belief through the seniority of just Being…

If I can shift over to Being instead of Doing then I am giving my energy system a silent message that is very balanced
and homeostasis can exist.

On the other hand, if I am constantly blaming and berating me so that I will finally be perfect and then and only then,
I can love myself, I will be setting up a pattern of betrayal on the inside. This betrayal pattern will show itself over and over again
so that I can witness the incongruity of it and heal !

Recognize your story and also recognize that you take it with you every where you go so that you can finally heal it.

Gawd forbid that we don’t get that proof of their love on this auspicious day…

Do we go into blame and prove to ourselves that we are not loved if we don’t get the 12 roses, or the dinner out, or the loving card, or the phone call, or the “Honey I love You “?

This doesn’t have to be an anniversary for you to remind yourself to feel unloved.

How many are receiving the roses and the gifts of dedication and love and feeling hurt by the gifts? … Does it  feel like a lie ???

If you are in a relationship that is false or superficial or unreciprocal,  sometimes the gifts can make that space where the wound lives hurt even more … It’s like being in a crowded room and feeling completely abandoned and alone.

Gifts from others aren’t true if they are false and especially if we are false with ourselves and want someone else to prove our worthiness to us. We shall be let down at the expense of others that do love us.

If you are punishing yourself with unreceived gifts , check in with your true self and allow you to feel loved by you.

If you check in and you don’t feel loved by you ~ then let’s do some E.F.T. on how you really feel about Valentines Day. After all, if you are feeling unloved, then you might need to look at the unhealed wounding that causes you to feel this way.

For those who know the EFT protocol, tap along to the following statements:

“Even though I don’t feel loved ~ I choose to accept me anyway”
Say this 3 times while tapping the karate chop  point ~

“Even though this is Valentines Day and I feel Unloved , I choose to feel this part of me that feels unloved.”
(  top of head  )

“Nobody loves me.”
Tap on all points ~ click here for diagram.

Nobody loves me.” ( this is the belief of the child within that you have been abandoning )
~ continue ~ nobody loves me ~

~ Please remember that this isn’t the real truth ~
it is the truth of your younger self that feels this way ..

“I Hate Valentines Day.”
( tap on all points )

“They don’t really love me.”
( tap on all points )

Now this is where you need to be a detective…

• What picture comes up ? or What Feeling ? or What Memory ?
• He doesn’t love me ~
• She doesn’t love me ~
• They don’t love me ~
• They are against me  ~

If you find any jewels of thought where you are invited to go deeper, take the invitation from that deeper part of you.

This is where the Valentines Day Gifts are Waiting!

~ If you Desire to Change The Way Life Is Showing Up For YOU ~ Call Me and We Shall Change It Up.

You can x-ray a broken bone, but not a broken heart. The heart wound can be psychologically examined and treated with talk therapy and become desensitized yet still remain a core wound or scar. The scar tissue will layer itself over the wound and time will  buffer the original hurt and trauma.

The part of us that fled what it perceived to be an overly painful reality is shattered and damaged on many levels and layers. The loud echoes of pain will to be heard and felt internally perhaps with completely different symptoms and behaviors.

This aspect of damage to the subtle energetic anatomy correlates with symptoms of dissociation, P.T.S.D. and soul loss.

Valentines Day can be an anniversary for some of these old wounds. Let us use this anniversary to intentionally visit any fractures of the heart that have been shielded and cauterized by avoiding the pain. If we have hardened our hearts to keep safe from any new heart aches, we may be unknowingly holding a yield sign up so that no one may enter.

First comes the thought , then the belief, then the action. If the thought is attached to a wound from long ago then we will act on that programed response of avoidance to pain. Healing the wound is possible when we are ready to allow it to be safe.

Click here for tapping statements if you’re feeling unloved.

This is where the Valentines Day Gifts are Waiting!

~ If you Desire to Change The Way Life Is Showing Up For YOU ~ Call Me and We Shall Change It Up.

‘Being Right’ does not equate to ‘Being Well.’ Frozen energy does not circulate. It accumulates stronger anchors with continued denial. E-motion is energy in motion. If our energy is not allowed to move through expression, we will block our flow of joy.

This is the perfect time to clear resentments from the past and heal with Energy Psychology Techniques. These stuck energies can be cleared before Christmas without even confronting the people involved. The energy is within us; and we are in charge of our own emotional hygiene. Why not release the heaviness of the years? Choose to feel lighter this season.

Are you ready to shift? Learn about working with Dana Williams or contact Dana now.

Now pay attention to the way that you talk to yourself on the inside. Are you polite, patient and understanding? Are you careful not to bruise sensitive feelings? How are you with your self in new social situations?

If you were to speak to your peers the way that you speak to yourself on the inside, these peers would quickly retreat from the abuse. Many times a day we speak harshly and unsupportively through our inner “talksick” conversations. Sometimes, it isn’t our voice, but the voice of a critical parent or dominant person from childhood. This toxic talking is hurting us and keeping us small even when we may have goals and aspirations for success with our desires.

If your inner dialogue was a radio program, would you choose to tune into your productions? What would you call them? The “Berating Bully” show? The “I’ll Never Be Happy” show? The “I Hate My Life” show? The “You’re Not Worthy” show?

Eventually this inner pain and abusive self talk will show itself through other toxic symptoms, behaviors and patterns. It is your birthright to have joy and emotional freedom. Energy psychology is growing rapidly and is healing the toxic scars from our personal history. Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT) can replace the toxic chatter with love and acceptance.

This is the energy of Healing… Change.

The Black and White Commandments that were written in stone are softening and we are now able to heal in new ways. This is happening in medicine as well as in our personal structures of belief.

One of the patterns that keeps coming up for me as a Healing Practitioner is that what we thought was going to work for us is now collapsing. If we choose to cling with all our might to the old programs, we will suffer even more through these shifts.

We can follow our truth and notice how we feel when we honour what we really feel. The old ways were taught to us so that we would be safe and our pioneer ancestors based their decisions on Fear and Survival.

It is appropriate for us to soften this knee jerk reaction to Fear. We can start plugging in to who we really are on the inside and what we now want to create for ourselves. If I want to create wellness, success, abundance, joy, ease, spontaneity and humor, maybe the things that I have been doing aren’t working. Check with your Inner Compass.

Let’s embrace what these paradoxes are showing us and open up a different door to our selves!

Please join me in setting this intention for shifts in our old programs. I offering some interesting tools to those who are ready to shift. You see… it is a choice!

I look forward to upcoming opportunities to teach these tools to you, either in a private session, or in a workshop.

What if things seem random but are really following an efficient order designed by the way we interact with our memories? What if we made the things that happened to us mean something about us?

An example of this would be not getting our needs met as a child. After a while we just started to shut down on some level and set the pattern of belief to continue being right about not getting our needs met. Let’s say that this line of sub-thought goes on for decades and finally we start to physically and emotionally break down. Is it possible that we have designed our own demise by the continuation of the belief that was anchored in our childhood?

What if all these years we have been blaming “Them” for how things are? What if one day it becomes clear that it is me doing this to me? As children, we are inadvertently programmed by our environment and we form the basis for who we think we are. If we continue to “realize” (make real) these patterns unconsciously it will seem random. When we are thinking the programmed beliefs about us we are giving a message to others and saying, “This is who I am.”

What if the Universal Powers that Be are neutral about what we decide to create with our thoughts? What if it is all just a formula and we can have whatever we believe? What if thoughts are really Real and miracles do happen? What if we were to “Change our Minds” as quickly as thought and allow a new way to be in the world to be our new reality? What if we retrain our thoughts and send a different message to the Universal Intelligence? If I am a “Child of the Universe” then maybe I can re-invent this approach to discovering my Divinity.

I have heard it said, “We are all One.” What if “The Powers that Be” are Me? What if the Intelligence of the Universe keeps on showing me where I can go to heal? Have you noticed over the years how different people will keep showing up and re-presenting what is necessary to be updated according to who you really are? Is this punishment from the Gods, or is it the Universal Intelligence recognizing that we are ready to find out that we can exorcise the old belief system and see the Divine within?

What if this is “Earth School” and we came here to learn about Love? What if up until now, I have convinced myself that in order for me to be loveable, I need proof from the tribe. What if the tribe pioneered the old ways to be healed through Me?

What if it is all about Me finding out that if I love Me first without the approval of the tribe, I can hear my true voice and find my direction through self discovery and trust? What if, as I heal Me, I inadvertently heal my tribe and the Planet?

If Faith is a byproduct of belief, then maybe Jesus, when he spoke of having faith as small as a mustard seed to move mountains, was trying to help us understand the power of thought. He also said that we could perform miracles as He once did when He walked the earth as a man.

Jesus said, “As you think so shall you create.”

What if we continue to ask questions and be curious about this dynamic journey of self-discovery?

I believe in your Divinity!