Does It Suck To Be You? (at least some of the time?)
Working Way Too Hard ???
Is Your Idea Of A Vacation To Visit Your Fantasies ???
Are You Bored With The Same Old Same Old ???
Is Someday The 8th Day Of The Week ???
Are you pregnant with un-birthed creations?
Do you fertilize your un-creations with more thoughts and
dreams that lay dormant in the archives?
Are you bloated from all the unrealized fantasies that could have been?
These are ALL symptoms of being stuck in your head. When we have unfinished business from our past, that same unfinished business interferes with our creations and dreams in the Now.
Our computers show us this example very clearly. If the computer memory is full we won’t be able to download new programs or files; there’s just no space for the new info. We need to clear out old outdated programs and files in order to make way for the new ones we want. We can try and insert new disks multiple times but nothing will change until we release some old files. Then we can load the new ones.
Similarly, when life isn’t working for us, it’s because we have an internal “stuck program” that needs to be released. We typically want to change our outside world so that we will be unstuck. We will work harder, plan harder, create new strategies, all of which just keep us in our head and in the same old same old.
I like to call this the “I’ll be happy when” syndrome … us convincing ourselves that our outer world needs to change so that we can be happy. But the only way to get things unstuck is to clear the inside first (by identifying and releasing the belief system that is getting in the way) and the outer world will automatically shift.
Tina’s story is an example of looking deeper inside. Tina (not her real name) was stuck in her job for decades and was afraid to make a change. She really wanted to quit her job but she didn’t believe in herself because of past programing from her family of origin. She couldn’t move forward and find a different job because she didn’t know what she wanted.
Her mother was domineering and her father was emotionally absent. Her mother taught her that she wasn’t allowed to feel what she was feeling. If Tina was angry, sad or tired, she was told not to feel what she felt. She would be judged and shamed by her mother for acknowledging her feelings. If Tina was happy, her mother would make her feel guilty and shame her. Tina learned that in order to survive in the family, she would need to shut down her inner voice and not feel anything. Whenever she got excited about wanting something for her birthday or Christmas, she was told that she was being selfish. When she didn’t want to eat what was on her plate, she was punished for all the starving children in the world. So many survival skills were developed early on in Tina’s life that she slowly forgot to know how to listen to her inner voice and honor her truth.
Tina had complacency-itis. She was depressed and made her decisions based on “shoulds or shouldn’ts” programed from birth. Her job was just a symptom that showed her the real culprit that needed to be addressed. Tina needed to heal her inner programming, learn to feel her feelings, and start giving herself permission to discover what she liked or didn’t like.
When Tina finally started to do her healing inner work with me, it was the first step in her “coming alive” process. It was a huge realization for her when she saw that every area of her outer world was 100% being affected from her mother’s programming. Once she changed her inner world, her outer world automatically started to shift itself. It became easier and easier for her to check in with her truth and eventually speak it out loud. And now … Tina is living a life she could only dream of before. It no longer sucks to be her!
Many of you might be thinking that this is just too big to tackle all the different areas that Tina needed to address. But it doesn’t need to take long. Tina did it in just 11 hours. She purchased myTransformation Package #1 and together we deleted those old stuck programs. Now Tina is able to manage the discomfort of change and actively turn her dreams into reality.
If it sometimes sucks to be you, give me a call at 604-885-9793. Let’s clear your old beliefs and programs that are holding you back so that you can start living your dreams. Now.