Magical Mystical December Gifts
Hello Everyone on and off the Coast,
I send you all my best wishes for the month of December. I sense that many of you are already preparing and anticipating being ready for some of the growth opportunities that Dear December offers us. Please remember that you can get through this busy month with ease and grace and be aware that the shadow side of December’s lessons are a choice.
Below is a letter that I wrote to the month of December to honor and acknowledge Decembers of the past and the many choices that are in waiting…
Blessings & Love,
Dana
Magical Mystical December Gifts
Dear December,
You are here once again with all of your ornaments, carols, and interesting weather. You are a very special month and I am choosing to learn about the gifts of growth that you provide for me.
In previous years these gifts have sometimes been received through the energy of denial and resistance. I see that denying you are here causes more discomfort and last minute drama. You clearly are a very powerful and wise month… This year I choose to be in partnership with you in all your 31 days.
Dear December, maybe this year I can laugh along with you and accept the joy that you offer me. It will be much more fun if I ask loved ones for help with cleaning/ decorating/ shopping/ wrapping presents, baking and cooking.
I will enjoy you and celebrate the energies of receiving … instead of out of balance giving. The latter is the shadow side of what you offer us.
I am aware of your gifts of truth and completion from the 12-ness of your December Energy. Twelve is such a significant number in many spiritual and scientific aspects and I am open to seeing more of you in all of your glory.
Thank you for the gifts that you have put forth for me, Dearest December. I embody the energies of Love, Kindness, and your Magical Mystical Gifts from past Decembers that were patiently waiting to be collected and received by me. These gifts have now found their true home in my heart.
My Inner Divine Child celebrates me embracing you and I delight in your annual visits.
Thank You, December, for the best December yet !!!
And to read my article from last year, “Christmas: Heaven or Hell?“, please click here.
May we all be blessed with Love
~ for ourselves and each other ~
Dana
Our Stories
We create our life stories so that we can re-experience our unexpressed emotions from childhood.
For example, if we never had enough support as a child, we will unconsciously create opportunities to
experience not having support and not being seen or heard by our parents. This will eventually be transfered
to our immediate relationships where our parents aren’t even involved… The family of origin may be deceased or
estranged. Nevertheless, it will play itself out in our money, our relationships and our health.
We do this unconsciously of course and if we step back we will notice a repetitive pattern that cannot be denied.
If betrayal is one of our emotional themes, then we will experience a series of interactions where betrayal is the payoff.
“At least I will get to be right about my pain…” ( the story continues… )
The upside down way of being is slowly starting to be globally healed as the next generation teaches us to be
conscious of our creations.
Have you noticed how our young ones are more conscious and evolved in this area?
They innocently question our toxic reasoning when we accidentally show it to them…. This is the same innocence that
we have within us. We can re-connect to this and rebuild our foundation of belief through the seniority of just Being…
If I can shift over to Being instead of Doing then I am giving my energy system a silent message that is very balanced
and homeostasis can exist.
On the other hand, if I am constantly blaming and berating me so that I will finally be perfect and then and only then,
I can love myself, I will be setting up a pattern of betrayal on the inside. This betrayal pattern will show itself over and over again
so that I can witness the incongruity of it and heal !
Recognize your story and also recognize that you take it with you every where you go so that you can finally heal it.
More Thoughts on Valentines Day
So often Valentines Day is about someone else proving and acknowledging that we are lovable.
Gawd forbid that we don’t get that proof of their love on this auspicious day…
Do we go into blame and prove to ourselves that we are not loved if we don’t get the 12 roses, or the dinner out, or the loving card, or the phone call, or the “Honey I love You “?
This doesn’t have to be an anniversary for you to remind yourself to feel unloved.
How many are receiving the roses and the gifts of dedication and love and feeling hurt by the gifts? … Does it feel like a lie ???
If you are in a relationship that is false or superficial or unreciprocal, sometimes the gifts can make that space where the wound lives hurt even more … It’s like being in a crowded room and feeling completely abandoned and alone.
Gifts from others aren’t true if they are false and especially if we are false with ourselves and want someone else to prove our worthiness to us. We shall be let down at the expense of others that do love us.
If you are punishing yourself with unreceived gifts , check in with your true self and allow you to feel loved by you.
If you check in and you don’t feel loved by you ~ then let’s do some E.F.T. on how you really feel about Valentines Day. After all, if you are feeling unloved, then you might need to look at the unhealed wounding that causes you to feel this way.
For those who know the EFT protocol, tap along to the following statements:
“Even though I don’t feel loved ~ I choose to accept me anyway”
Say this 3 times while tapping the karate chop point ~
“Even though this is Valentines Day and I feel Unloved , I choose to feel this part of me that feels unloved.”
( top of head )
“Nobody loves me.”
Tap on all points ~ click here for diagram.
Nobody loves me.” ( this is the belief of the child within that you have been abandoning )
~ continue ~ nobody loves me ~
~ Please remember that this isn’t the real truth ~
it is the truth of your younger self that feels this way ..
“I Hate Valentines Day.”
( tap on all points )
“They don’t really love me.”
( tap on all points )
Now this is where you need to be a detective…
- What picture comes up ? or What Feeling ? or What Memory ?
- He doesn’t love me ~
- She doesn’t love me ~
- They don’t love me ~
- They are against me ~
If you find any jewels of thought where you are invited to go deeper, take the invitation from that deeper part of you.
This is where the Valentines Day Gifts are Waiting!
~ If you Desire to Change The Way Life Is Showing Up For YOU ~ Call Me and We Shall Change It Up.
Fractures of the Heart
If only we could put our heart in a protective cast while the broken part heals… Traction might even be called for to pull the heart back together so that it may mend and heal.
You can x-ray a broken bone, but not a broken heart. The heart wound can be psychologically examined and treated with talk therapy and become desensitized yet still remain a core wound or scar. The scar tissue will layer itself over the wound and time will buffer the original hurt and trauma.
The part of us that fled what it perceived to be an overly painful reality is shattered and damaged on many levels and layers. The loud echoes of pain will to be heard and felt internally perhaps with completely different symptoms and behaviors.
This aspect of damage to the subtle energetic anatomy correlates with symptoms of dissociation, P.T.S.D. and soul loss.
Valentines Day can be an anniversary for some of these old wounds. Let us use this anniversary to intentionally visit any fractures of the heart that have been shielded and cauterized by avoiding the pain. If we have hardened our hearts to keep safe from any new heart aches, we may be unknowingly holding a yield sign up so that no one may enter.
First comes the thought , then the belief, then the action. If the thought is attached to a wound from long ago then we will act on that programed response of avoidance to pain. Healing the wound is possible when we are ready to allow it to be safe.
Click here for tapping statements if you’re feeling unloved.
This is where the Valentines Day Gifts are Waiting!
~ If you Desire to Change The Way Life Is Showing Up For YOU ~ Call Me and We Shall Change It Up.
Christmas: Heaven or Hell?
Do you have layers of resentment or grief from ‘old hurts’ carried over from past unhealed run-ins with family or friends? Relatives can activate unhealed memories that will become current events year after year. Sometimes Christmas is only an anniversary to celebrate pain over and over again.
‘Being Right’ does not equate to ‘Being Well.’ Frozen energy does not circulate. It accumulates stronger anchors with continued denial. E-motion is energy in motion. If our energy is not allowed to move through expression, we will block our flow of joy.
This is the perfect time to clear resentments from the past and heal with Energy Psychology Techniques. These stuck energies can be cleared before Christmas without even confronting the people involved. The energy is within us; and we are in charge of our own emotional hygiene. Why not release the heaviness of the years? Choose to feel lighter this season.
Are you ready to shift? Learn about working with Dana Williams or contact Dana now.
