Time for Some Long Overdue R&R (Respect & Responsibility)

Let this February be a game changer.

Take that step that you have been waiting for.

I mean ALL your relationships

Goodbye 2011 ~ Hello 2012 !

Hello everyone! I send you all heartfelt New Year Best Wishes. May we all receive the highest vibrational learnings with ease and grace in the next 12 months.

This time next year, our future selves will be looking back at all the gifts and learnings that were part of this year. It feels a bit like September when we used to get ready to go back to school  in a higher grade with a new teacher and possibly new classmates.

Let’s be curious about who our new teachers and classmates will be in 2012 as we grow and learn here in ‘Earth School.’

Please remember that if at any time you are feeling uncomfortable, that means that you are growing and shifting

Blessings & Love,

Dana

Building a Bridge from 2011 to 2012

Adjust your rear view mirror to this time last year ~ January 2011.

Do you remember how positive you were on taking those steps into the new year, to create the new you?

Please congratulate you self for all the great steps that you took, because you are absolutely awesome!

Let’s welcome the growth that you are ready for today in this moment ! You are creating your future right now!

So let’s be results oriented and positive

Five Key Transformational Truth Boosts

1. Challenges don’t happen TO you ~ they happen FOR you. ( It is what you do with the learnings that counts. )
2. Waking up is a process.
3. ” No” is a complete sentence.
4. You are creating your future in the now.
5. In order to change, you actually have to change … ( just sayin’ )

Let’s take change for instance. Ask your self …

• When opportunities for change come to your door, are you excited to answer it, or are you afraid to answer it?
• Do you go and busy yourself with numerous activities and distractions?
• Do you get ill and create a drama so that you can’t walk over and answer the door?
• Do you blame someone for you not being able to answer the door?
• Do you hang onto an old wound or story that you ‘re-charge’ to use as your excuse battery ?
• The old stories and unhealed wounds are actually gifts !

They are a continuous communication from the symptoms that are trying to get our attention.

Let’s unwrap these gifts that have been constantly repeating the same message.

Behind the wrapping of the old wounds , fears and beliefs are the gifts of change.

May we all be blessed with Love ~ for ourselves and each other ~

Magical Mystical December Gifts

Hello Everyone on and off the Coast,

I send you all my best wishes for the month of December. I sense that many of you are already preparing and anticipating being ready for some of the growth opportunities that Dear December offers us. Please remember that you can get through this busy month with ease and grace and be aware that the shadow side of December’s lessons are a choice.

Below is a letter that I wrote to the month of December to honor and acknowledge Decembers of the past and the many choices that are in waiting…

Blessings & Love,
Dana

Magical Mystical December Gifts

Dear December,

You are here once again with all of your ornaments, carols, and interesting weather. You are a very special month and I am choosing to learn about the gifts of growth that you provide for me.

In previous years these gifts have sometimes been received through the energy of denial and resistance.  I see that denying you are here causes more discomfort and last minute drama. You clearly are a very powerful and wise month… This year I choose to be in partnership with you in all your 31 days.

Dear December, maybe this year I can laugh along with you and accept the joy that you offer me. It will be much more fun if I ask loved ones for help with cleaning/ decorating/ shopping/ wrapping presents, baking and cooking.

I will enjoy you and celebrate the energies of receiving … instead of out of balance giving. The latter is the shadow side of what you offer us.

I am aware of your gifts of truth and completion from the 12-ness of your December Energy. Twelve is such a significant number in many spiritual and scientific aspects and I am open to seeing more of you in all of your glory.

Thank you for the gifts that you have put forth for me, Dearest December. I embody the energies of Love, Kindness, and your Magical Mystical Gifts from past Decembers that were patiently waiting to be collected and received by me. These gifts have now found their true home in my heart.

My Inner Divine Child celebrates me embracing you and I delight in your annual visits.

Thank You, December, for the best December yet !!!

And to read my article from last year, “Christmas: Heaven or Hell?“, please click here.

May we all be blessed with Love
~ for ourselves and each other ~
Dana

Our Stories

We create our life stories so that we can re-experience our unexpressed emotions from childhood.

For example, if we never had enough support as a child, we will unconsciously create opportunities to
experience not having support and not being seen or heard by our parents. This will eventually be transfered
to our immediate relationships where our parents aren’t even involved… The family of origin may be deceased or
estranged. Nevertheless, it will play itself out in our money, our relationships and our health.

We do this unconsciously of course and if we step back we will notice a repetitive pattern that cannot be denied.
If betrayal is one of our emotional themes, then we will experience a series of interactions where betrayal is the payoff.

“At least I will get to be right about my pain…” ( the story continues… )

The upside down way of being is slowly starting to be globally healed as the next generation teaches us to be
conscious of our creations.

Have you noticed how our young ones are more conscious and evolved in this area?

They innocently question our toxic reasoning when we accidentally show it to them…. This is the same innocence that
we have within us. We can re-connect to this and rebuild our foundation of belief through the seniority of just Being…

If I can shift over to Being instead of Doing then I am giving my energy system a silent message that is very balanced
and homeostasis can exist.

On the other hand, if I am constantly blaming and berating me so that I will finally be perfect and then and only then,
I can love myself, I will be setting up a pattern of betrayal on the inside. This betrayal pattern will show itself over and over again
so that I can witness the incongruity of it and heal !

Recognize your story and also recognize that you take it with you every where you go so that you can finally heal it.

More Thoughts on Valentines Day

So often Valentines Day is about someone else proving and acknowledging that we are lovable.

Gawd forbid that we don’t get that proof of their love on this auspicious day…

Do we go into blame and prove to ourselves that we are not loved if we don’t get the 12 roses, or the dinner out, or the loving card, or the phone call, or the “Honey I love You “?

This doesn’t have to be an anniversary for you to remind yourself to feel unloved.

How many are receiving the roses and the gifts of dedication and love and feeling hurt by the gifts? … Does it  feel like a lie ???

If you are in a relationship that is false or superficial or unreciprocal,  sometimes the gifts can make that space where the wound lives hurt even more … It’s like being in a crowded room and feeling completely abandoned and alone.

Gifts from others aren’t true if they are false and especially if we are false with ourselves and want someone else to prove our worthiness to us. We shall be let down at the expense of others that do love us.

If you are punishing yourself with unreceived gifts , check in with your true self and allow you to feel loved by you.

If you check in and you don’t feel loved by you ~ then let’s do some E.F.T. on how you really feel about Valentines Day. After all, if you are feeling unloved, then you might need to look at the unhealed wounding that causes you to feel this way.

For those who know the EFT protocol, tap along to the following statements:

“Even though I don’t feel loved ~ I choose to accept me anyway”
Say this 3 times while tapping the karate chop  point ~

“Even though this is Valentines Day and I feel Unloved , I choose to feel this part of me that feels unloved.”
(  top of head  )

“Nobody loves me.”
Tap on all points ~ click here for diagram.

Nobody loves me.” ( this is the belief of the child within that you have been abandoning )
~ continue ~ nobody loves me ~

~ Please remember that this isn’t the real truth ~
it is the truth of your younger self that feels this way ..

“I Hate Valentines Day.”
( tap on all points )

“They don’t really love me.”
( tap on all points )

Now this is where you need to be a detective…

• What picture comes up ? or What Feeling ? or What Memory ?
• He doesn’t love me ~
• She doesn’t love me ~
• They don’t love me ~
• They are against me  ~

If you find any jewels of thought where you are invited to go deeper, take the invitation from that deeper part of you.

This is where the Valentines Day Gifts are Waiting!

~ If you Desire to Change The Way Life Is Showing Up For YOU ~ Call Me and We Shall Change It Up.